Do you like this bedroom?

I'm liking the neutral tones of this bedroom... Soothing and cosy...

What do you think? ;)

Why do we hurt our closest?

You had a bad day... reach home... mum ask something... you snap at her... go to room... slam the door... immediately feel bad... =(

Does this sound familiar? Yes? I admit I'm totally guilty of that... and always try to reflect on my own actions... I tell myself not to do it not to do it... umpteen times... but this thought only fits in my head when I'm feeling rational...

But when I'm feeling irrational... hmm... :s

Why is this happening? Why do we do such things to our loved ones? Because we take their love for granted and assume that no matter what nonsense we do to them, they will not forsake us? But it's not very fair to them... what have they done to deserve such treatment? Maybe there is some other solution for this?

Perhaps... in such events... I should try to count to ten... and not snap... communicate the issue why I'm feeling irritated/ frustrated? Maybe sharing could be a better outlet that snapping?